Hi everyone
Thanks so much for all your replies. Well I saw the GP on Thursday and she told me to do nothing and that MCHN should NOT have recommended vasoline. She gave me some information from the Royal Children's Hospital and it was great it explained in really simple terms and stated that their approach is to do nothing. It will generally rectify itself by them time she gets her first period but often by the time she is two. So that was great and I'm really glad I made the appointment now. I'm cranky that my MCHN said to use the vaseline as my GP told me the recommendation as been to do nothing for ages now and she was surprised that the health nurse gave me that advice and they only prescribe the cream in really severe cases or if the little girl has been getting lots on UTI.
Anyways thank you all again I really appreciate it