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  1. #1

    Dec 2005
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    Hairy child??

    Ive always wondered about Mini me's hair line..to me she seems to have a low line at the front especially around the temples.

    Tonight we had a shower and I noticed how hairy her back was and by I mean hairy its HAIRY.

    She has very fair hair but the hair on her back is quiet dark.

    Im a little worried aobut it...she's 4 in September and I thought all her baby fluff had gone

    Has anyone else gone through something simular with their child?

  2. #2
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    Oct 2008
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    I know that it sometimes runs in familys. My sister has particularly a lot of hair on her face and arms, and always has, I do to but mine is very blond whereas hers is quite dark. I seem to remember she started to remove it at an early age (10-12?) as she was embarrised by it.

    Sorry, that probably wasn't much help

  3. #3
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    Oct 2004
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    Both my girls have hairy backs. DD1's is quite noticeable and DD2 seems to be hairy in one little patch. I am reasonably hairy, but none on my back. DH on the other hand, well you could brush his back hair! Not sure yet whether to be worried about or not, might bring it up at the next MCHN visit for DD2 if I remember.

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    Aug 2006
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    I was talking about this with my MIL because DD2 was a bit on the fluffy side up until about age 2...apparently her eldest DD was so hairy for so long people would stop MIL in the street to comment on it LOL. I don't know how long this went on for but she was a perfectly normal non-hairy looking teenager when I met her. Still, if you're worried about it, mention it at her next check up, just for reassurance.

  5. #5
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    Maz i have the same thing with DD1.

    i have hairy arms, and always pray the girls dont have the same as me, i HATE it with a passion.

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    I think DD2 is a bit on the hairy side too & often worry about it. I mean, it doesn't bother me, but I don't want her to be embarrassed when she gets older.
    She has a hairy back that I always thought would've dissappeared by now. I've always just told myself that maybe she'll manage since my neice is maori & exactly that same. So they will be the same age going through it & at least they'll have each other
    I've always just thought I'll worry about it when I have to....when/if she ever does.

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    Nov 2006
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    My kids are hairy, but neither my husband or i are short of hair ourselves.

    I figure, we are just part of the normal genetic mutation of gradually getting hairier, ready for the next ice age

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    Oct 2006
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    I have the same concerns for my DD. Being a quite hairy child myself and not being helped out with it by my mum (when all the other girls were at the age that they started shaving legs, etc) I vowed that when I began to really notice DD's hair I would do something about it. The problem is that she's only almost 3 and already I notice how hairy her legs and back are.

    I am treading a line that I don't want to have her feel that this is ugly or not right and we need to do something about it, as I want her to be happy and not even notice it. But at the same time, when it gets to the stage where other kids are going to notice it, I don't want her being teased and having to work out the best way to deal with it herself.

    Tricky...

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    Jun 2005
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    I have the same concerns for my DD. Being a quite hairy child myself and not being helped out with it by my mum (when all the other girls were at the age that they started shaving legs, etc) I vowed that when I began to really notice DD's hair I would do something about it.
    I also have this problem. My whole life really. It was something that I didn't feel comfortable talking to my parents about and they never mentioned it to me. So I grew up hating my body, being ashamed, embarrassed etc and basically wanted to die from a very young age. I'm saying this because if someone had told me that it is normal and gave me ways to deal with it then I would have reacted better. .
    I had the same problem. My Mother was no help either. I would avoid anything that would lead to exposing myself and felt i had a dirty little secret all through my teens. I just wish i had someone to guide me through that awful time.

  10. #10
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    Oct 2004
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    Poor DD1 almost has a mono-brow. I doubt that will get better with age

  11. #11
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    Dec 2005
    Melbourne, Vic
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    Yeah Ash seems to have quite alot of fine hair too, freaked me a little bit too!
    I also wonder too as mini you is quite a skinny mini maybe thats another reason? Skinnier people tend to have more hair to keep warm.

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    Sep 2008
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    I figure, we are just part of the normal genetic mutation of gradually getting hairier, ready for the next ice age
    That's a good one, I think I'll use it!

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    Jul 2005
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    Sooooo many girls have hairy backs as young ones which they simply grow out of. My DD had a hairy back until she was about half way through primary school... then it was like as she grew bigger the space between her hair folicles increased and now her back is smooth like mine. I think people hide it with sun smart swimmers etc so you just don't realise until you have a child of your own.

    Maz: if she is fair then blonde people have more hair folicles than brunettes... more but finer in texture... brunettes have less but it's thicker... and she will most likely literally grow out of it.

  14. #14
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    Jul 2005
    Rural NSW
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    Hairy child??

    Good point Shell. Come to think of it it does seem to be skinnier girls who have this issue... DD seemed to grow out of the hair thing when she filled out.