Yes that's great thanks!

I'm anticipating the same issue, that the holding down will be the worst bit. Hard when they are that old.

I phoned the clinic and spoke to a receptionist who was really informative, and said we can just have a consult without making a decision, or we can do it while we are there, so I have booked in , it's still 6weeks away. I feel better that we a going to have it done.

Meanwhile, DH just looked in the mirror at work and discovered he has one too lol