Thanks all for your help and PM's.

I feel so helpless, for her... and as things are going to be changing for our family in the next few weeks i don't feel like I can be as there for her as I would like because I've got my own stuff I'm going through (i.e having a baby and dealing with a crazy 2 year old!!).

I passed on the information that you gave me so hopefully she gets a chance to connect with other parents on those forums who are going through the same thing.

I guess the only thing I can do is be a friend for her to talk/vent to... I could just hear the devastation in her voice last night... it was so so sad

Wish there was more I could do..

Thanks again!