Sorry this may be the wrng area but I couldnt work out wherre to post this one.

A friend has 2 kids that have special needs, and has recently found out that their issues are linked to a medication she was taking immediately precdeing and throughout her pregnancy.

At the time, she checked and double checked that the medication was safe (shes taken it for a long time before the pregnancies) to continue with while TTC & pregnant and was told that it was fine to take.

From what she said, it sounds like this *was* the advice at the time but that more recent research as proven that its actually not, and its linked to her kids special needs.

Is there anything she can do/action she can take or does she just need to try not to feel guilty every day for the rest of her life (which she now does), and get on with it?