I just tried to pm you but seems your inbox is full Don't feel bad hun, it's not something you automatically look for, and it's quite difficult to pick up in littlies if you're not looking for it!

As well as the group on here, there's an excellent facebook group HERE Mods, I hope this is ok, I can't PM....

It's very supportive and has quite a lot of experience/knowledge.

I'm sure you'll find heaps of support .