Thanks guys

I tried the soy cheese slice things that I found - DS hates them ... even DH said they tasted like crap... LOL

He's not as manic now (welll, no more than a normal 2 year old) and his poos have gotten a little better - one even rolled off the nappy the other day

But he still has cheese - so thanks for that tip Ally.

Ali - yeah I'll have to look into getting some dairy free margarine.....