Just a quick Q: as your DD is only turning 5, she may well forget something like this. How would you feel if in a few years' time she couldn't remember her awesome party? I know my mother is upset I don't recall all the big parties she did for me when I was younger (earliest birthday party I remember is my 11th).
I don't think I would mind, I'm living for now and I guess it's something she is right into & we would have a million pictures.

Like her birth (which clearly she won't remember) I'm going to drum into her just all the wonderful things DP & I have done for her including birth on a bathroom floor hahahaha!