5th birthday party - how do I not invite all of his kinder classmates?

[Cassius2]

the way of kinder world at our kindy is that the carers slip an invite into the pigeon hole without telling the invited child and then they let the parents know upon pick-up. this has happened heaps and i know there were parties that others were invited to that DD wasnt and it all worked out (ie, no hurt feelings etc). but it does take discretion on part of the kinder carers ITMS.

[BellyBelly]

My kids old school had a rule that invites couldnt be handed out in class - it was unfair to those who missed out. Keep it smaller, just post out the invites instead