Male equivalent of a Fairy?

[AngelPunks]

actually they fey are both sexes .... if you want to get really technical

[Pandora]

for that age group I'd say Elf though they can be either.
In 'Ben and Holly' (yes I take all my advice from telly ) there are male and female fairies and elves. Its the dads like my DH (not all of them, just the ones who are like mine) you need to use the term elf to appease.