Hi All,

I appreciate all of your honest opinions and each sharing insight to your personal experiences. It is soooo interesting how everyone has their own take on the big C topic. Keep them coming...

At this stage I am probably still leaning towards still getting it done (that's if it is a boy), we may end up in the same boat as smiles4u and have a girl after all. It's probably something that will come up again in the future as we are hoping to at least have a couple more down the track.

I have 9 weeks to continue researching on the topic and make a decision after that.

I find it amazing that it wasn't something (until only a few weeks ago) that I realised DW and I needed to decide.

Pregnancy has been such a surreal experience (even 4 me the DAD..!) I'm aged 28 and DW 24, so in terms of close friends - most of our friends haven't started families yet. This site offers the ability to speak openly and honestly with parents (and parents to be).

Cheers

Dane