Thanks for all your help Ladies.. I have been talking to the Director again and she is keen to get a workable systen in place. I have bought a 10 litre bucket with sealable lid that I will mark as "Ethan's dirty nappies" and i'll just take the whole bucket at the end of the day if that is ok with them... From what I have found it should be alright for the bucket to stay in the room in the toilet area so I think that once we get under way this woman will wonder what all the fuss was about but she needs to give it a go before freaking out...