i know Mel that is what i said (i didnt speak with MIL DH did). Her last time was bad. She was induced, laboured for 20 hours, had fetal distress and preclampsia and then they put her to sleep for a general (she was 42 weeks with #1). so maybe they are just jumping in early??

as for the solution... omg you dont know how many times i say this!!!

i said... if i have to wash everyday so he doesnt have to smell wee, the he has to pick up the dog poo from the yard every morning so i dont have to smell poo! fair trade??