gigi - bilby looks absolutely adorable in those pics! I love that little dress.
The girls have been giving you some fantastic advice so far on your situation. Your dh has certainly put you all in a bad situation.
But let me tell you this, my mum ended up being a single mother to 3 young children by the age of 21. She left my dad, and it was the best thing she could have done for herself, and for us. I have so much admiration, and respect for her for doing that. We struggled a little at times through life, but we had a good life. We were happy, my mum was happy, that's all that mattered. When she left my dad she had nothing. He had (and still does) a high paying job, and never gave her a cent of it. He never paid child support, so yes, my mum struggled. But she got through. I guess her survival instincts kicked in.
So if it did get to the stage that you did leave your dp, then you need to believe in yourself that you can do it for you and bilby. You CAN provide for her. As FJ has said, you will get support.
Does he understand to the extent of what he's done to you, does he know you're feeling this way?
christy - that is so cute of what Matilda said about sesame street.
We've had a few sunny days this week so my itti bittis are slowly fading. But I'm still not happy. I think I'm going to have to buy some more. I hate the look of them.
arimeh - that large magical you sent me for Emily fits really good. I can't believe she's in large already
rhyb - do you have itti bittis in your stash? If not, I have a couple, you can suss them out next week. They are my favourite nappy for Emily. I don't have many, probabyl only 6, but they are just devine!
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