willow hun you definatly aren't nuts!!!!!
i was like that with my first...refused to have anything set up etc..til right near the end...whatever makes you feel at ease is best!!!

I have a heap of nappies on the clothes horse and now after doing washing this morning..i have another heap already to wash..i have a pooing machine now...gone from constipated to pooper galore!!!

WOJB ~ IB of some colour..& i am NOT looking he needs his sleep...