Thanks Ladylove, for your thoughts last month. DD2 is still a very slow learner when it comes to TTing. She holds on forever but prefers to take herself to the toilet and rarely makes it. She appears to be going okay at preschool. Our nanny is also not having much luck. Nap times we've gone nappy free as she was just holding on for a nappy. I've put a potty in her room to encourage her to be independent this week. Sooooo over it.