Hi *noni*e*
We don't rinse the wipes here, they go straight into the nappy bucket and we do a nappy wash every 2 days.
As for types of wipes we use, velour wipes are used for poo (we got ours from Itti Bitti, but there are heaps of other brands out there), and the Big Softies el-cheapo wipes for wee (they are very thin, with the towling feel on one side only). These cleaned up the poo OK, but I found that I needed to use a lot of them to clean DD up properly. Quite often I could get away with 1 of the velour wipes.
I also have some flannelette wipes (double thickness flanelette) that I made with scrap material I had lying around.
In the early days, we used normal face washers as well