I don't use panadol very often.. I don't like taking pain killers myself and I don't like resorting to it for my kids either.. I use cuddles and cold things to chew on!

There are quite a few natural things out there.. The one I use is Infants Friend. It is for belly aches and Teething. I think it has a calming effect,

So no I don't think you are being cruel.. Instinct comes into it as well.. Sometimes you just feel you have to use it.. and I keep repeating to myself.. if it doesn't work then I know for next time and it won't harm them..

My older kids will ask for panadol if they want it.. (need)