Wow, awesome advice. You are the third person to recommend the NUK orthodontic dummies, so off to get one today. I will try the pram for day naps (what day naps??!!) when I'm not baby wearing. And yep, I think I might have to use the feeding chair for night feeds too. It's at the other end of the house, and closer to DS1 -if Bub cries he might wake him, but, meh, I need to be comfy!
can you move the chair so you don't have as far to go?