Thanks for that - I had forgotten about the blue lips part.

I am kinda happy that I have had a difficult bub because I know what to expect next time..
Ngala, that is a really healthy approach to take! I expected the "worst" (not that some babies are worse than others but YKWIM!) and had a really easy baby and BF experience. I think I am just reverting back to my default "expect the worst" approach again LOL!