thread: reflux, unsettled and no smiles

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  1. #1
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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
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    My bub has had tummy issues, and you can definitely tell the difference between when she is unsettled and when there is no colic/reflux. Hope you get some smiles soon!

    take care, Kate

  2. #2
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    Oct 2008
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    yep - I had a colicy refluxy baby as well and we didn't get many smiles. When we made all the changes, different formula, raising cot, change table, sitting as upright as we could we still didn't get many. I eventually worked out that when I was looking at her I was frowning, waiting for something to happen - I wasn't smiling at her So every morning I spent half an hour just smiling at her, singing her songs and then in the evening, I gave her a massage singing songs and smiling.

    We then got smiles and laughs and everyone in the family was much happier. I don't want to say that you aren't smiling at your DD enough, but that is what was happening to us. I didn't know I wasn't smiling until someone pointed it out to me. With DD2 I smiled a lot more and even though she also had reflux we got smiles much earlier

    HTH