Don't stress that you have done anything wrong, you sound like a fantasitc mummy! I think your DD sounds pretty normal.....babies will be babies, and that means changing things ALL THE TIME. What they did four weeks ago bears no relation to what they will do NOW. My DS is constantly changing his sleep patterns. I try really hard now to go with the flow, and follow his lead.

We often have days where he doesn't sleep much, and I worry that he's not getting enough. But he usually makes up for it sometime. Some babies just don't need that much, especially if they sleep well at night. I think an hour is a reasonable sleep, but that's just going off my bub! Don't forget, as babies get older, their sleeping changes alot. DS used to sleep with all sorts of noise going on around him, but that slowly changed. By four months, he was in his cot with the door shut! We co-sleep at night, but he starts off in his cot as he won't settle in bed with us.....go figure!

I agree, don't leave her to cry, especially if you're not happy with it. I also have family that always wanted me to put him down.......I sympathise! you do what makes you feel happy, and be confident! YOU are Savannah's mummy, YOU know what's best for her. Please don't make yourself sick over this, it WILL get easier.

ETA Sorry if this post is garbled, I'm in a bit of a rush!