I used some techniques from the No Cry Sleep Solution that helped to reduce the all night feeding, but we are still feeding at least twice a night. The other thing that helped, and this doesn't really help you (but might give you hope), was just time. It was kinda like all of a sudden, sleep wasn't the completely evil thing it always had been.

Ideas i got from the No Cry Sleep Solution was trying to detach so she wasn't attached all night. It took awhile to work out the right time, at the start i was doing it 7 or 8 times and bub would wake again but now she comes off herself (or i can help detach) and she will just roll over to sleep.

Second was to offer a hug or pat first, many times i would end up feeding anyway, but over time sometimes a back rub will work and she will go back to sleep. I think this has helped to increase the gap in feeds, because i am not offering the boob at every wake up.

If i was really tired or she was, i would go back to just feeding, because it was easiest. When i felt stronger, i felt more confident in trying the different techniques.

I also took one side of her cot and put it up against the bed, and at the begining of each night she would start in the cot. I was able to reach her from the bed, and when she woke she could climb onto our bed (so she didn't feel as restrained as when the cot was complete). I am slowly working on resettling her in the cot after a feed. SOmetimes it works, other times it doesn't, but slowly she is happier to sleep in there for longer periods.

Can you get sleep at other times? Get a lie in on the weekend? Hire a cleaner?