We've had a breakthrough, DD slept in her cot all night!

DH & I have decided to give up co-sleeping, its just too much for me. I think DH would be happy to continue, but I need some space.

We're moving her into her own room today and following a no cry sleep routine, so not abandoning gentle parenting - I feel guilty but also positive that this is the right step for my family.

Thank you to everyone for their responses. I very much appreciated them.