DD still is rocked to sleep for night and day sleeps. It's just getting too much for my back and I really want her to start going to sleep in her cot. i dont mind if i need to stand there with her or whatever but whenever i have tried this before she just goes and goes for well over an hour no matter how tired she is. she just will not lay/stay down and go to sleep.
everytime i think 'right thats it, lets do it, no rocking' i give up and pick her up, just because it's so obvious to me that shes not going to go to sleep. so i know not being consistent is a problem but i dont think i'm doing it gradually enough but i just dont think i know how.
i am completely against controlled crying/progressive waiting and the like but desperately need to do something!