I wouldn't feel bad either, Caro. My DH is such a dear (though he's a bit of a 'nag' in the DTD department) that I only do it because I feel sorry for him, LOL! I have zero sex drive atm - even though he makes it 'worth my while' (sorry - TMI!) I just don't *ever* feel like it. So, if I were more honest, I wouldn't be DTD either... And we don't co-sleep