Maybe you can suggest to Mark to try to enjoy Matthew sleeping in bed with you both whilst it lasts... as he is not going to be so little for much longer!

I found that when Aidyn got to the age of crawling and being more mobile it was harder and not as safe to have him in bed with us anyway, which is why I compromised by putting the cot next to the bed.

Definately follow your instincts and what you feel is right, Dee... theres nothing wrong with that at all and thats what maternal instincts are for...