hello girls!

The more i read about co-sleeping the more i'm inclined towards it, but i think i have a few hurdles in the way . . .

My man only comes home late on friday nights after working all week in melb, and leaves sunday nights, i dont think given our limited chances for intimacy, that it would be too healthy to co-sleep?

Further to above, if i were to co-sleep during the week, i'm guessing it would be detrimental to bubs to put it in the bassinette for the remaining 2 nights my man is home? The bassinette is in our room with us, though bubs has it's own room for when it's too big for bassinette.

Also, i dont smoke but he does, so what is the go with the non-smoker rule, is it referring to those who will smoke inside, or those who smoke outside but still have the smell lingering on them on return?

Or for the sake of routine should i stick to the bassinette full time, and just have it next to bed?