of course on the sex life, i should have thought of that! Hehe!

The man does smoke outside, but it really does hang on him, so yeah i guess those would be bassinette nights, at least to begin with anyways.

Actually that makes the most sense, starting in bassinette, as i'm a night owl, so i'd be up for hours anyways, tired or not :-)

Thankyou girls! I've been mulling over this for a while now, and in the space of a couple hours you've managed to make it so clear for me! Much appreciated!

Oh, one other thing, mozzie control. A net is not practical as it's a wicker bassinette, and when i tested with the net there were still ways for the bugs to get in through the wicker, actually scarily enough, a spider got in! We dont have a bug zapper yet, on the cards, funds depending, but i usually burn citronella candles, is that ok with bubs around?