Caro: at the moment she is sleeping in my bed, as she just would not go in the cot. However this morning she slept in the cot for about 40 mins which was good for her! I was prund of her.

Our big problem is if I cosleep next to her during the day and feed her off to sleep. As soon as I get out of bed, she wakes and wont go back unless i refeed her etcetc.. I end up having to lay in bed with her for 2 hours to let her have a decent sleep! I am getting nothing done !!

Thanks to everyone for your suggestions. I will go out and get one of those cuddle bears tomorrow that might just do the trick. I might also start putting her to bed before she gets to cranky. Its all trial and error isnt it!