Aww... some lovely memories. And also some very strong sad memories- good on you girls for changing things for your children.

When I was 12 I think the puberty hormones hit me hard and I went through a stage of nightmares and bed wetting. I used to hop into my Mum's bed (divorced then) but she made me feel really unwelcome so I stopped doing it. Instead I would lie in my room wishing soooo badly to hop into her bed and feel safe. It always makes me aware of how parents may think the cosleeping thing has been 'fixed' but have no idea that it's not fixed at all and instead their child is actually suffering. I don't want to do that.