Jooleshere - yeah, we kinda have a routine I guess. Once we pick up on tired signs, then it's nappy change, feed, bed. Or shower, teeth & bed. Whenever it happens to be. We have plenty of bedtime cues here LOL. But it's certainly not by the clock, and I'm not trying to make him sleep when he's not tired! But I also have a pretty compliant little man.. if we're out, and he's tired.. he's still very good, and then falls asleep in the car, or when we get home. He's rarely ratty when he's overtired. Maybe the gentle methods made him this flexible & easygoing? Guess we'll never know. heh.

Would be interesting to see if there's a certain demographic of people that use different methods - gentle or otherwise. Probably not a survey that could be conducted without getting people's backs up tho LOL. It'd be interesting to see if the mum's age and working situation came into play.