Well said Cailin!

Can someone RE-convince me that comforting my baby isn't a bad thing?
How much convincing do you need that YOU need comfort as a human too? If in doubt, I put myself in my bubba's place. If you get the comments, something I use which is great for all sorts of things is, 'It's obviously still important to him, and I am happy to provide it.'

My two have co-slept and they are not wrapped around my finger spoilt brats. They are very independent and attachment styles of parenting have been associated with this, confidence and independence later in life.