Ok not sure if this is where I should post this.....

Lucie has always been the world's hardest baby to feed. I have got in the habit (well it was the only thing that was working) of feeding her to sleep, she then finishes the feed while she is actually sleeping. She screams blue murder if you try and feed her at any other time. So basically I know she is now reliant on the bottle to fall asleep. How do I stop this? She is 9 months old now and we have #2 arriving in September. Should I cave in and start doing controlled crying, or is she too old for that now? I have always been pretty against it, and have no idea how she will take a bottle if I don't feed her to sleep. I just feel like I am doing everything 'wrong'.