Thanks so much, again guys for the supportive replys and for sharing your experiences.

(I just read my original post back and I think it sounded a bit like I WANTED to let my bub cry, did it? I really didn't mean it didn't sound like that..I just had trouble trying to explain what I meant! IYKWIM. I just meant I feel lots of pressure about what I SHOULD be doing, even though I don't think it's right..)