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  1. #1
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    How do you DTD while co-sleeping

    I have always wondered how you DTD while having a baby, toddler in bed with you?

    Do you move them over?


    And still have sex right next to them?


    Do you have sex less often?


    Do you have sex with them in the same room as you? Doesn't that take away the mood?




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  2. #2
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    Jan 2006
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    Just do it some place else...

    One time we dtd in same room and yeah, it kinda killed the mood because we were trying so hard not to wak him.

  3. #3
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    I'd say do it somewhere else too (not that I have any kids yet or am co sleeping) but who knows it might spice things up doing it out of the bedroom or do you have a spare bedroom you can go to while your bub is sleeping in yours?

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    pfft who needs a bed for nookie?

    Everywhere else becomes your playground

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    One word... shower! lol

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    We just used the spare room (or the couch ). DH won't even do it with the cat or dog looking let alone a kid in the room.

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    pfft who needs a bed for nookie?

    Everywhere else becomes your playground
    that's cute.

    The only one time we had our DS in our room (albeit not in our bed) it completely killed the mood and we couldn't progress past starting and constantly worrying if he was awake.

    So I'd say either do it in there when your kids aren't (being minded or at care etc) OR find other creative areas!

  8. #8
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    I'd say do it somewhere else too (not that I have any kids yet or am co sleeping) but who knows it might spice things up doing it out of the bedroom or do you have a spare bedroom you can go to while your bub is sleeping in yours?
    Just make sure you remove any signs if using the spare room I quickly cleaned out our spare room today, moved the box of condoms, but my brother found and empty wrapper while unpacking in there tonight

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    haha happy mummy

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    Bathroom works a treat for us and it's the only room with a lock on the door. Our youngest is in our room and with another 3 we don't take our chances.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    TBH, we haven't tried - Since being back from Melbourne, we haven't DTD (mostly cause AF came back and DH wants to be careful) But when we were over there, we DTD with DS in the cot next to us and.. yeah, even though he was asleep, it was a bit of a buzz kill

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    Just make sure you remove any signs if using the spare room I quickly cleaned out our spare room today, moved the box of condoms, but my brother found and empty wrapper while unpacking in there tonight
    :yeahthat: LOL

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    Just make sure you remove any signs if using the spare room I quickly cleaned out our spare room today, moved the box of condoms, but my brother found and empty wrapper while unpacking in there tonight
    HAHAHAHAHAH I just cracked up!


    When we had Charlie's cot in her room i was feeling less sexy but it didn't seem to bug DP (who nagged). Now Her cot's next room over I feel a little less vulgar. Oh and I go with shower too. We have one in the granny flat so we use that rather then flashing the neighbours through the frosted bathroom glass

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    HAHAHAHAHAH I just cracked up!

    So did SIL.. She casually came out and asked who was sleeping in there last? When I asked why, she said what was found.. I must admit, at the time I was mortified. The my bro was carrying on, I thought there was a used one in there or something.

    Of course the sheets had been changed, and that is all he was worried about.