Thanks for all of your replies and suggestions. We were co-sleeping until 8 weeks and now his cot is in our bedroom and he comes in our bed after his last feed as he settles better in our bed where we can hold his dummy in and his hands because he's a bit more alert after sleeping all night. Sometimes when he's woken before the 2 hours he will grunt a bit and if he's in our bed than we can again hold the dummy in and he'll grunt away a bit but I fall back to sleep so I don't know if he goes back or not lol maybe if we keep co sleeping all through the night rather than having him in his cot I can try the holding the dummy in when he wakes up and he might go back to sleep as Trish has suggested. If that works and he then gets used to going longer between feeds and having more sleep he can go back into the cot.... Thanks so much I think I've got a plan