Hello... 2 threads in a few days from me I need to get off hte computer haha

Anyway I went to the GP the other day to get a lump on my back checked out, that is all sorted now I think but the conversation got to

GP: So are you still breastfeeding?

Me: Yes

GP: No Reply....How many times she wake up at night?

Me: 2 or 3 (I didn't say on a good night)

GP: She should be sleeping through by 6 months you know, no wonder you are tired.

Me: Really? Yes I am tired

GP: 'they' recommend controlled crying

and proceeded to tell me how to do it.

I said that I'm not really comfortable with doing that. I feed her and then she goes back to sleep.

She then said well I suppose thats ok if you want to do it but its better to 'nip it in the bud' now

I am annoyed and disappointed. Also doubting myself a bit. This GP is young and I have had no issues with her before. She is also an obstetrician I think. She didn't ask any other information about Sarah (who is 7 months on Saturday) like teeth (yes she is getting some) solids (no she wont eat anything yet despite lots of trying) etc etc or anything about my ideas or views. Just straight out 'you should do controlled crying'. I think this is plain irresponsible. People trust their doctors (not me now). And who are 'they' who recommend this controlled crying business anyway. Don't worry, I will not do it. I'm just annoyed because I finally thought I found a GP who is living in this century. I also wish I had said something to her then.

Am I right? Sarah will one day sleep all night without me having to controlled cry? I'll be patient. One day will be nice though.

Thanks for listening.

Pip