Elizabeth Pantley is the author of the "no cry sleep solution" plus her toddler / toilet training / discipline books and she is fabulous!!!! Simple but effective techniques that adjust to where you are up to in your parenting path. No step by step routine but some suggestions that can be mixed and matched to suit you and your child. Small things that can make a HUGE difference in a very short time frame.

Can you tell we have been having some success

And a big wooooo hooooo for Jazz!!!!!
Thanks Michelle - i think i need to get my hands on that book - night time we are fine but day time!!!! is a another story!