Heaven - you are so not alone. Do whatever you can to get you through and keep you as happy as possible. I have not been able to implement any sleep plan exactly with either girl - it has been a jumble of lots of different things. I found some tips on the QEC website - they are a sleep school in Melb that have some simple and gentle ideas (I have only listened to the baby ones) which are helpful - I am currently in #2's room shushing in the dark as teething has thrown her off course this week. xxx