Has she ever gone to sleep without being fed to sleep? DS stopped feeding to sleep (feeding to sleep was never consistent, even from birth, but he stopped completely at about 9m) so we had to work on a new tactic, we started rocking in arms and patting, then we slowly moved to rocking/patting in the bed, now he goes down awake and is patted to sleep. He has other associations (or should have!) such as the routine and his sleep CD, but just needs patting off. He has started to re-settle pretty well sometimes, but other times he needs patting. I'd love for him to feed to sleep every time and us co-sleep! So much easier.