we are not sleeping well anymore

[Sammiejane]

Well we had an awful night!!

DH and i were talking before we went to bed and we realised that her bad sleeping pattern only started at 6.5 months and that was when she started consuming foods instead of playing (we are doing BLS).
MJ has also started pooing early too, either sometime after 4am in her nappy (which i am sure is why she grizzles early morning) or as soon as she is sitting on the potty (doing EC part time) in the morning anytime from 6.30-7am

here is a link to a list of GI foods... it is a diet website, but it was the better list that i could find with evrything listed.... Glycemic Index Food Chart
Think we may try just veggies and pasta and maybe no later than 4.30pm so that she has a chance to use some of the energy.

Also Marlene, you probably know this as you have had kids before, but around this age, BF babies can pick up an extra milk feed overnight (even if they previously slept through)... i tried dream feeds and the worked for a while and then it go worse, but thats probably with the extra and later foods that we had also tried. so maybe thats worth a try too?
I might go back to them...
I will give the low GI foods a go first and demand feed o/night to start with to see if that helps, maybe she wont need the extra feed (thats sounds hopefull doesnt it )

Shoegal - things got a bit better with the dream feeds, also we tried playing soft music when she went to sleep and each time she woke, that helped (stopped now - playing that is) she is sometimes sleeping longer stretches, sometimes not.
I also dont feed her directly before bed now, let her play for 30-45 mins before bed. i have to rock her to sleep, but she is not feeding herself to sleep (and at times not finishing the feed) and waking in a diff place. She is going off quicker most days now, but it is taking a while to impliment....

[Trillian]

Marlene, I would give Alister a combination of rice cereal and quick oats (not the flavoured ones though) and then just oats when he was used to it and a little bit of green veges (spinach, broccoli and peas - I started with the raffertys one and then just made my own version of this) when I started reintroducing a night meal for him. At this stage too, some of what they go through is developmental as well. You would also have to expect that when they poo at that hour of the morning, that they would feel a little discomfort as it is moving through the intestine/bowel kwim? A lot of Alister's problem too was lower wind pain and how it moved through his stomach.

Sammiejane, so it makes sense to you now does it? Also at this age they don't need a huge variety in their diet either, so if you have a day where it's only 1-2 different things, then that's fine. They have the rest of their life to experience all the food on offer, and it certainly wont create a fussy eater.

[Marlene]

Jack was doing huge farts this morning, not even sure what time it was I was that tired, LOL. Probably about 3am.
When he is waking at night if he doesn't settle easily (put his dummy in and a bit of a pat on the bum) I give him a BF as I do find he is not drinking quite as much during the day as he is just so active, even when I take him into his room and close the blinds it is nearly impossible to get him to stay still for more than a few minutes. I dont mind waking for a feed at night but its the waking every 2 hours that I cant handle.

Jack is great at getting to sleep, Self settles perfectly, its just the staying asleep and self settling during the night that is a problem.

Sorry to hijack yor thread Sammijane.

[Sammiejane]

No problems Marlene...
No dinner last two nights, not unsettled waking, but waking for feeds overnight still.
Last night was two feeds and then after the 4.30am feed she wouldnt resettle well.
Took an hour and finally we bought her into bed with us, then she slept soundly until 7.30am

Could this be a growth spurt? is that why she needs extra night feeds?
She is still having 5-6 BM feeds throughout the day, and now 1 or 2 over night....
Man im tired this morning

Its such a change from the baby that slept through the night (needing no feeds, not even dream feeds) from about 6 weeks old..
Will she ever sleep through again?

[Sequoia]

Its such a change from the baby that slept through the night (needing no feeds, not even dream feeds) from about 6 weeks old..
Will she ever sleep through again?

My DS slept through, no night feeds, from 8 weeks and it's killing me too.

At 12.30 last night his whimpering built up into a scream, he had a feed which only settled him a little.

DH ended up pulling the single bed up alongside DS's cot and holding his hand through the bars!

And then he slept til past 7.00am!

If only I knew there would be an end point. How long does this behaviour last???

Gosh, I sound so incredibly selfish but it is such a shock to go back to sleep deprivation land....

SG
xo

[Sammiejane]

Gosh, I sound so incredibly selfish but it is such a shock to go back to sleep deprivation land....

Im hearing you on all counts

[luey]

I have never left sleep deprivation land, I guess that makes it better. But beleive me it still hurts - 1-2 hourly all night is just wrong. What I hate is it settles for a bit then it just goes pera shaped again.

Some interesting ideas here. I might try giving DS no tea and see what that does. Except he wakes for feeds anyway, only way he settles