Oh Sarah I know exctly what you mean

Like parenting isnt hard enough wihtout well meaning family friends and sometimes strangers making even harder.

In the end I just never spoke of Ds sleeping habits and when people asked i would jsut say he sleeps like any other baby.

I am soo glad i stuck with my gentle techniques and my way as now Ds sleeps all night in his own bed and you know what he did all by himself.so hopefully the light is ther for you somehwere too

So I hope Z will work it out too and you can brush off all the comments.
xx