He weaned himself at almost 2yrs... But I still have to lay with him. I still lay with DD too, though she's not usually fully asleep when I leave her now. But I don't really mind the snuggles. Some days I wish I could just get up to finish doing the house work before I can sit and relax, but most nights I enjoy the snuggles, and lately (being pg) I sometimes fall asleep with one or the other (when DH is home!) so I take advantage of having an early night, lol!