Ryn, you poor love, it's so hard to find a solution and get any perspective on things when you're sleep-deprived. Let alone a sleeping solution!

First of all, in my experience (on the end of receiving advice) mothers and grandmothers seem to have very rosy memories of what we/their children were like as babies (and toddlers and I assume it'll continue right into childhood). Even when it comes to comparing with beloved grandchildren. So I wouldn't take what your mum is saying too seriously, I swear the mind must forget a lot (I'm hoping for one to forget stinky nappies)! And for some reason their advice always comes across with a dash of criticism. Nobody knows your baby better than you and you are absolutely the best mother he could have!

Secondly, the only tip I can offer is to try sleeping with Liebling while he isn't well or is unsettled. I think I've read before that you have? I found that was a winner with Lucy and still is if she isn't well. It's usually only for a night here, but whatever works, I say, go with it.

Have you tried using something like the Hug-A-Bub or a sling during the day to keep him close (not in the shower tho!)?

I'm sure some of the other girls will have some great tips. He will get better and I hope you get some sleep soon!