Can anyone help me with a question?

first of all just a bit of back ground.......

Its been a while since I've been on here as the whole baby thing went out the window for a long span of months after a A.I attempt and my donor just simply not bothing to contact me again, but I have a new boyfriend (after 15 years of trying!) and Im not particularly trying to get pregnant but see it more as -well, if its Gods will Im not going to interfere, and just enjoy it without even trying! You girls will understand the psychology in that Im sure!

but, my cycles are not regular and haven't been for some time since the age of 35 (I just turned 39) in a pattern like this- 28,32,31,30,28,30,32,31,28.........

The first day of my cycle was 5th December, and had relations with my boyfriend on Tuesday 22nd.

I very rarely have a normal 28 day cycle mostly 30-32 but regardless I still have the 14 day leuteal phase.

I have looked up ovulation caluculators and some say I would have ovulated over the weekend between 20-22 given that length of cycle.

I had fertile mucus last week most abundant by last Friday, then on Sunday I had the usual twinge right in the center near my bladder and by monday had the hotness (its a weird sensation to describe so I'll say hotness) that goes right accross my abdo. So I would bet my money I ovulated possibly monday?

I have been trying to find out info about time frames between seeing the stretchy egg white and ovulation but I can't seem to find anything, that may be attributed to the fact that every woman and every cycle varies?

So Im wondering if anyone had any thoughts if I might have still been fertile on Tuesday or if I was in the safe zone?

Either way I guess in 2 weeks Im gunna know!

Cheers

BJ