Its been a while since I've been on here as the whole baby thing went out the window for a long span of months after a A.I attempt and my donor just simply not bothing to contact me again, but I have a new boyfriend (after 15 years of trying!) and Im not particularly trying to get pregnant but see it more as -well, if its Gods will Im not going to interfere, and just enjoy it without even trying! You girls will understand the psychology in that Im sure!
but, my cycles are not regular and haven't been for some time since the age of 35 (I just turned 39) in a pattern like this- 28,32,31,30,28,30,32,31,28.........
The first day of my cycle was 5th December, and had relations with my boyfriend on Tuesday 22nd.
I very rarely have a normal 28 day cycle mostly 30-32 but regardless I still have the 14 day leuteal phase.
I have looked up ovulation caluculators and some say I would have ovulated over the weekend between 20-22 given that length of cycle.
I had fertile mucus last week most abundant by last Friday, then on Sunday I had the usual twinge right in the center near my bladder and by monday had the hotness (its a weird sensation to describe so I'll say hotness) that goes right accross my abdo. So I would bet my money I ovulated possibly monday?
I have been trying to find out info about time frames between seeing the stretchy egg white and ovulation but I can't seem to find anything, that may be attributed to the fact that every woman and every cycle varies?
So Im wondering if anyone had any thoughts if I might have still been fertile on Tuesday or if I was in the safe zone?
I guess anything is possbile, esp since your cycles are a little all over the place anyway. If you do fall PG you would have a higher chance of conceiving a boy.
Good luck, hope you have a Merry Chirstmas and a very Happy New Year, remeber to test, JIC before you go out drinking on NYE. This was the case for me a couple of years ago, it was a lovely belated Xmas pressent.
Hi thanks for your reply. I am starting to feel scared for some reason?
All this stuff is going through my head like 'What have I done", "Am I really ready" "Is this what I really want?"
I hope this is all normal because I have this gut instinct I can't explain.........but....something is just telling me to be prepared if A.F doesn't turn up by the 7th Jan!
I can't explain this emotion its just awful, like a mixture of fear and wouldn't it be wonderful???. But I guess everyone has been there!
Advice wanted
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