Am i being selfish or impatient?

[~Raven~]

We had a 2 year engagement and in that time two of my bridesmaids conceived and had their bubbas. I would never have asked them to put their family on hold for me, but then everyone is different I think talking to her would be the best thing to do.

I'd also be inclined to wait till your DH has a stable job. It shouldn't really matter but if you want him to be able to have paid leave when bub comes along he needs to have 12 months with his employer to be able to do that. Plus it's reassuring to have financial stability.

[onlyone]

number 6 could I please have one of your money trees

[Anila]

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