I'm having thoughts about #3 ...

That is all.

Well, it's not ... I have mostly yucky pregnancies (with DS2 I was vomiting up to and including the day I had my caesar!!) and a truly awful birth (rectovaginal fistula, anyone??) and the whole thing was just terribly traumatic.

I love my kids.

I would love a daughter. I would love three boys.

If we had a third son, I would want him close in age to his brothers - maybe a 15-21 month gap. It would be a hell of a lot of work, but it would be wonderful.

If we had a daughter, I'd be happy with anything up to a 5 year age gap.

But we'd have no idea what we're getting!

We're not interested in gender swaying.

I miss being pregnant. I loved being pregnant. Pregnancy sucked. Pregnancy was haaaaaaaaaaaaaaard and 9 months of vomit and nausea and blood noses and dizzy spells and pain and nightmares and bleeding (only the once, but once was enough!!) and so forth.

But I know I'd do it all again for another child. If it was right for our family.

Tell me the truth about the difference between 2 and 3 kids ...

Tell me if I'm being nuts.

The rose coloured glasses are on the bench - give me the truth, before I put them on, or throw them out.