Oh lisa I am sorry for your loss.

I had an ectopic pregnancy in February 2010. I too lost my right tube. No one mentioned what recovery would be like at the time. It wasn't until my follow up that the ob said to me, 'people are so blasé about someone losing a tube, but it's a loss of an organ, just as significant as losing a kidney'. I was amazing as I'd spent the past two months thinking I should suck it up and get on with it all.

I feel pregnant again soon after and had dd3 in late December 10. But since then I have had pain on and off in that same area. Just at my pap smear this month my ob said that that is common and that it's the scar tissue its not that painful. I can live with it but I was a bit sad to hear I'd have to live with it if you get what I mean.....

Ectopics are traumatic physically and emotionally. There is a lot to process and it's not a nice journey.

I am glad that you have found Bellybelly. You will get loads of much needed support here. You are not alone.

I would chart your cycle and hey I'd run to the GP if you need too as much as you need too. But ectopic pregnancies show up just the same as normal pregnancies. So if it's negative then it's probably negative.

Hugs Hun!!